Sunday, November 8, 2026

A Remarkable Accomplishment!

Little Y was born prematurely and diagnosed with a hypoxic brain injury.  We shared her story last year, and if you missed it you can find it here.  Y is now a beloved daughter in one of our foster families.


We’d like to tell you about something remarkable that Y achieved recently, but before we do that, we have to explain a little bit of Chinese history.  There is an ancient poem called the “Thousand Character Classic” that is… exactly what it sounds like.  It was written in the 6th century, and has been used since that time as a literacy primer for generations of Chinese children.  Each of the 1000 Chinese characters is used only once, and they are arranged into 250 four-character rhyming lines.  Children in China have traditionally learned to chant this poem the way children in the West sing their “ABC’s”.  


Last month, we decided to challenge the school age children in our care to see if they could memorize and recite the “Thousand Character Classic”.  We were surprised at how enthusiastic they were to take up this challenge.  The sound of children memorizing these lines became a familiar echo in each of our foster homes.  Without any pressure or demands, even the younger children got caught up in the excitement and asked if they could do it – and Y was no exception.  For weeks she memorized and practiced, one line at a time.



After many hours of practice and preparation, Y approached the project director and asked if she could present her recitation.  Much to our joy and surprise, she was able to recite the entire “Thousand Character Classic” from memory!*   To say that we are proud of her would be a profound understatement!  We are so grateful to all who support us with their prayers and financial contributions - you are truly making a difference for little ones like Y!

*We only uploaded the first two minutes of her recitation… it goes on for quite a while!




Tuesday, November 3, 2026

A Year with Books 📖 📖

Over a year ago, we started a mini project to improve our teachers’ competence in guiding children to read. We did this because we found that the children in our care, no matter how smart and expressive, quickly fall behind in literacy and reading once they start primary school. 


Some cannot remember even simple characters. Some do not understand what they read. Some are unable to read a short paragraph out loud, and others find it very hard to put their thoughts into words. It is not uncommon for some of the secondary students to have the reading ability of a first or second grade primary school student. Their teachers, group home parents, and tutors had all put in a lot of extra effort hoping to help them improve. Despite all this, their progress was minimal. 


Research around the world shows that this may be explained by a less-than-ideal early reading experience for children like those in our care - who often come from chaotic family backgrounds,  who have needed extensive medical treatment, and who have experienced instituational care. 


In regular family homes, reading with parents (or siblings) and chatting about books often happens naturally before bedtime, on the couch on weekends, or by the dinner table. Children may watch others in the family read as a daily practice. Books may be found everywhere in the house—on the bookshelf, by the sofa, or on a bedside stand. However, when group home parents need to care for a number of children with a variety of special needs, reading together is understandably not their first priority. 


We all know how important reading is for children. It benefits children cognitively. It is nurturing when a child resonates with the experience of a character in a story. It reduces stress, helps children with emotion regulation, and improves their executive function. Reading is not only crucial for their schoolwork, but it can also be one’s armor, a hiding place. 

Therefore, we decided to intentionally set up a reading-friendly environment for the children. To do this, we first started a reading group for the teachers to improve their awareness and competence in guiding children to read. We selected a series of books to read  and discussed them together online each week as our main intervention method. We learn how to guide the children to read by reading a book ourselves and talking about what each of us notices in the book, often very differently. Through our shared reading, we also learn to encourage and value each person’s voice, no matter how seemingly trivial or unconventional it appears. Here is a glimpse of what the teachers said—

Ms. J: “I really look forward to our weekly sharing time. We are now reading the 4th book. I often think of the children in our work, and I think of my own childhood, my family and my teachers. Some of it was warm and supportive, and some was regrettable. They have all become important lessons for me.”  

Ms. N: “It helps me clarify many important concepts. I learned to guide every child to share, rather than only encouraging those who are capable of talking. I am reminded to give EVERY CHILD an opportunity. I also learned to be flexible. For example, when we talk about families, we can expand the concept, focus on ‘love’ and not ‘biological parents’ to accommodate the group home kids.”

Ms. L “The weekly reading really encourages me to read, because we need to share our thoughts. So I made reading plans for myself, and I pushed myself [to read]. Now I am used to reading a couple of pages every day. I got used to it and I started to like it. The books that we have been reading also inspire me to read more, and go deeper into the topic. It helps me to think.”

Meanwhile, we organized reading clubs for older children every weekend, and we increased reading and discussions for the little ones in our Classrooms of Smiles. We also got bookshelves and filled them with books for children to choose from. 


For the very young children in our collective care model, we set up a reading corner, selected picture books suitable for their developmental ages, and recruited volunteers to read with them on a regular basis. 


Whenever possible, we also took the older children out to the local library. It was really rewarding to see almost everyone burying their heads in the book. 


One year might not be long enough for many children to excel in literacy. However, some children started reading a little bit longer. Some could share a little bit more. Some would ask questions based on the book they were reading.  We believe that for the children in our care, reading is a necessity, not a luxury. It is our hope that books become their lifelong companions and open up a splendid new world for them! 



Friday, October 9, 2026

A Forever Family for KX!

Little KXwas abandoned in a northern province in 2021.  She had been born prematurely and weighed only 2 lbs 10 oz (1200g) when she was found in a village by an elderly gentleman who lived nearby. 


She has changed so much since we met her 5 years ago.  KX has grown into a mischievous five-year-old who loves to play outdoors and is always on the move. 


She’s very interested in nature, exploring plants and flowers and how they change through the seasons.


KX has a captivating giggle and has endeared herself to all of the caregivers at her home.  


Recently, she saw the bigger kids learning how to do a traditional massage.  She went home and decided to try it out on her mama… let’s just say, her mama was very grateful for that!  


And we have a very exciting update about KX to share with you... she was adopted by a local family this month.  She joins an older brother and a mom and dad who love her dearly.   Our greatest wish for each of the children in our care is to know the love of a forever family, and we are so incredibly happy that this has become a reality for Xin.  Although we miss her every day, we are so excited to see what the future holds for her.  



Friday, September 25, 2026

It's time for mooncakes again!

It's that time of year again!  The Mid-Autumn Festival is celebrated on the 15th day of the 8th lunar month, when the moon is at its fullest and brightest and all of the efforts of summer are being realized in the harvest.  We had a lot of fun making mooncakes, which are the traditional food eaten for this festival.

We started by mixing up our filling:


Then things can get rather messy... time to put on the gloves!


The filling then gets rolled into little balls.  It's just like working with play-doh... except this dough has lots of nuts! 


After the filling is ready, the little balls are wrapped in the outer dough.



Then each little mooncake is flattened and pressed into a decorative mold.  Now they are starting to look like mooncakes!

Time to get them in the oven!


The final result is irresistible... freshly baked, warm and fragrant.  So yummy!



🌕 Happy Mid-Autumn Festival! 🌕





Saturday, September 5, 2026

Launchpad🚀 - Meet W.G.

We wanted to give you a chance to get to know the participants in our Launchpad program.  We interviewed each participant so that they could share their stories, their hopes and how this program is helping to shape their future.

W.G. came to the orphanage when he was five, and we first met him when he was about twelve years old.  His orphanage learned of our family model of care and thought that a foster family might be a good way to help him work though the challenges he was facing at that time.  When we started our Launchpad project, he asked if he might be included.  We were delighted to welcome this gentle and thoughtful young man into the program.


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 Could you please introduce yourself?

I’m WG, 23 years old. 

What does a typical day look like for you?

I come to the social work center on weekdays, and I often stop in on weekends to help care for our classroom pets. I also like riding along the riverside linear park on weekends. 


What do you enjoy most about being part of this program?

I love every bit of it. 


What kind of professional skills are you learning or improving right now?

I am focusing on different hands-on activities, for example, learning to become a barista and making mosaics, necklaces, bracelets, and phone straps. I have also learned to do flower arrangement and paper quilling. 


Every Friday afternoon, I work as a teaching assistant at a special needs school, where we teach students there about flower arrangement and quilling, etc. 

How do you handle challenges or things that don’t go as planned in your work or learning?

I listen to music. I also have two friends who give me a lot of support. One of them I met in the social work center, and the other one is an old friend from the orphanage. 

Where do you imagine yourself five years from now? What kind of person or professional would you like to become?

I hope I can have really good life in a couple of years. 


What does that look like?

Maybe I live in a rented apartment, have a few cats, have a hands-on job and stable income, and have friends. 


What kind(s) of cats would you like to have?

I like all kinds of cats except the hairless Sphynx cat!

What message would you like to give to those who are just starting this program?

Just keep at it. You'll get there!





Wednesday, September 2, 2026

Growing up in a family...

This month we would like to introduce you to X. 


His orphanage approached us 6 years ago when we were expanding our family model of care project in his province and asked if he might be able to join us.  He was 8 years old at that time and had a diagnosis of cerebral palsy and hemiplegia.

X has truly blossomed since joining a family.  Despite his physical limitations, he’s a busy young man and joins in every activity that he can.  


X is a good helper around the house, working in the kitchen to make dumplings for holidays and tidy up afterward.  He doesn’t seem to mind other household chores either, and is happy to help with folding laundry, sweeping and watering the plants.  

One of his most impressive accomplishments lately has been his success at school.  He decided to try and earn points for a special reward from his teachers by scoring high on all of his exams.  He got three A’s on his final exams this spring, which was the most of anyone in his class!  

Since he’s been doing so well in his studies, he’s also offered to tutor some of the other children and help them review for tests.  We’re really proud of him!


We are grateful to all who have made it possible to provide X with love, nurturing and a chance to thrive in a family.  Thank you for joining us in in this very important work! 


Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Launchpad🚀 - Meet Y.J.

We wanted to give you a chance to get to know the participants in our Launchpad program.  We interviewed each participant so that they could share their stories, their hopes and how this program is helping to shape their future.

YJ holds a special place in our hearts, both because we have known him since he was a tiny infant, but also because it was his plea for help that inspired us to begin our Launchpad program.  YJ's orphanage asked us if we could help him when he was a tiny baby, and he then spent many years in one of our group foster homes.  He's now a thoughtful young man who loves Japanese language and culture.  YJ has been studying Japanese very diligently and is working his way up through the national language skills exam system.

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Could you please introduce yourself?

My name is DYJ, and I am 19 years old. I enjoy Japanese language, Japanese dramas, and music. 

What does a typical day look like for you?

Every day, I come independently by bus to the social work center, do chores, participate in activities, and study Japanese. 


What do you enjoy most about being part of this program?

My favorite parts of the day are the trips between home and the social work center. I enjoy the view on the bus. When I leave home for the center, I embrace a new day. When I leave for home, I feel relieved because “Finally the day is finished and I can go home now!” See, I enjoy staying at home and at the center, but it wouldn’t be good if I stay in one place for too long, hahaha! 

What kind of professional skills are you learning or improving right now?

I am studying Japanese. I have passed the N3 test, and the next big challenge is I will go straight at N1. It is very difficult, with long articles for reading comprehension, like academic writing, and novels in Japanese. 


What motivates you to keep learning or working?

It definitely is Japanese. At the beginning, I felt Japanese sounded gentle and soothing. After I started studying Japanese, it became my goal to make a living with the language, you know, make money and live independently. 

What are your personal goals for the next one or two years?

It is to take the N1 level Japanese language test.  I'm working so hard to prepare for this! 


What has been the most valuable thing you’ve learned so far — about the work, living independently, or about yourself?

Learning to cook, going to doctor’s appointments by myself, My first train ride alone. Also I have learned a lot about interacting with others, what I need to pay attention to. If something happens, I need to avoid extreme and catastrophic thinking. I need to use my reasons and evaluate. 



Where do you imagine yourself five years from now? What kind of person or professional would you like to become?

I hope that by that time, I have passed N1 and become a Japanese teacher, or preferably a translator, or receptionist in a Japanese business, or whatever. I hope I can live in Beijing, rent my own apartment, and earns enough money to take care of my own life. I want to build a career before finding a partner for life.  Having a girl friend costs money. However, I do want to have a girlfriend who would eventually marry me. 

If you could describe this journey in one word or short phrase, what would it be — and why?

Keep growing, keep making progress.